How many times have you looked back over your life and wish you could change something’s. How many times have you said or thought, ‘If only I knew then what I know now’.
The past is history, today is now and tomorrow is unknown.
There are people who planned for tomorrow yesterday but never lived to see it today. There are people who have plans for tonight but won’t live beyond this afternoon.
Enjoy every moment! Love every minute! Hugs & Love from me to you. Valarie
Far too often we allow others to take us for granted. We do it out of fear, love and even devotion. Our misery has become comforting because it’s better than being alone.
Take a look in the mirror; you are more than a door mat for someone to rest their feet on. You’re not the giver of all receiver of none.
Don’t let others take you for granted! Kindness isn’t a weakness and your humility isn’t a stepping stone for others to walk on.
Don’t be afraid to walk away from someone who doesn’t see the value in you. Walking away may help you find your way.
Love in action – Valarie
Alone Or Lonely
Alone or lonely which one am I?
Hmmm let me see, I can’t decide.
If I was alone you wouldn’t be listening to me.
Maybe just I’m lonely!
Or could it be I’m in between.
Wanting to be alone but needing to be seen!
I think I want to be alone.
No-one calls on the phone.
Spending some quiet time in a quiet place
Just needing my own space!
Hours and hours with me and me only
Sigh… Now I’m feeling lonely!
© Valarie Lovelight 2009
Have you started to write a new chapter in your life today? If not, why not? Was it because the last one didn’t make the best sellers list? Did you have writers block or felt you had nothing to write? Do you believe no-one would read or even care?
Stop focusing on other people when it comes to you and your life. In order to inspire others, you first have to inspire yourself. So, write your story and remember to be true to yourself and make every word count for something. Lastly, don’t let others write your story for you, because they’ll never get it right! Hugs and love from me to you. Valarie
As we enter into a new year, don’t allow old habits, lifestyles, attitudes or people hold you back, including you. There’s a purpose and plan for your life, so find it and fulfill it! Let 2015 be the beginning of the best times of your life or the continuation of it. The past is gone, the present is now and the future is before you. Don’t use past failures as a crutch or situations and people as a reason to sit idle wishing things were different. Use your experiences good or bad to your advantage. Learn from them and use them as a stepping stone out of the pit and a spring-board into your future. Hugs and love from me to you! Valarie
There’s no greater gift then love. With that said it’s a gift often taken for granted in the giving and/or receiving of it being automatically understood telepathically. (What does that mean? Yep, that’s exactly how they feel with those gray emotions).
Try show and tell, that way no-one has infer what you’re thinking and assume what your actions could’ve meant. Gifts are great but words make them even better. Don’t for get to say…”I Love You!”